How important money is for you?????

There are many things which money can't buy, but there are many other things we need to buy and we need money to buy it, Money may not be everything but money is really important , the question is how important is money????

No one will disagree with the fact that money is loosely coupled with happiness. In today's world its not only the food or shelter which gives satisfaction there are other necessities like parties, beer , weekend dinner ,outings, international holidays etc etc and obviously all these comes at the an expense ... and for all these we need money ... We work our ass out whole week for a weekend with our loved ones to enjoy the money we earned ... but we don't realize that gradually money becomes so important that it takes over the everything else in life ...more than a need it becomes a necessity... Profession takes over personal life ... we think, eat, sleep only work and everything else becomes less important , finally when you realize that you become less important for everyone else ... and that time you know that all that money which you earned can't buy you back your loved ones ...

So now "How important money is for you?????"

Most popular debate!!!!!!!!

This post is dedicated to the most popular debate in India ..."Arranged marriage or love marriage"
... So what's it all about... how is it different from each other after all it finally leads to the same destination ... Responsibilities , sacrifices, compromises and so on and so forth ......... i don't wanna end this post by only the list which it brings with it....

If we speak in the technical language Love marriage is a type of prototype where requirements changes at runtime and its very difficult to maintain and it involves function like flirting , dates , phone calls , proposal , lot of fighting with family members (as if she/he is the last lady/man on earth for you) and of course you can do user acceptance testing before you finalize it.....
where as arranged marriages are like programming where object(candidate) is fixed and you apply your functions( likings) on to that and requirements and guidelines are fixed and can never be altered and the requirements will be given and approved only by parents, you are like an ignored tester who cannot even log bugs....

In love marriage all the differences start from second month of the marriage.... and every fight starts with "you were not like this before marriage" or "you have changed a lot" ... and all the love and affection shown by the lover like from flowers to gifts all halts suddenly ... he starts loosing memory very early in life .. he starts remembering his friends birthdays more his wife's or their anniversary ... on the other hand ..his wife will have a stronger memory she would remember every day from the day they met to the day she got her first gift and if she wants to celebrate that by receiving gifts don't be surprised.... 6- 10hrs phone calls a day will be reduced to 6- 10 mins and the smile when you see each other will reduced to a mere acknowledgment.... one more major thing being u yourself are the project manager...there are no escalation so parents won't come in between any of your fights.... so what's good about love marriage ...u know most of the likings and disliking of each other... u know each other's weak points.... u r very frank and open to each other ... you don't feel bad at all to bring in past in every fight....

Now what about arranged marriage ...that like a slow poison... but obvious love starts only after marriage so all the fights take little more time may be a year or so ...then it becomes pretty much the same ... only difference being that everyday you will learn something new about your partner ... and sometimes there will be many things you won't even know forever.....but here the lead will be your parents.. and you can always blame them for everything bad happening to you....

Well friends the truth is if you want a successful marriage just remember

"To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all"

Wish you all a happy married life !!!!!!!!

Phases of Life

Every girl may have gone through many phases in her life which totally changed her lifestyle , her ideas, her dreams and sometimes to a level that she is no more the person she was .....

My life had phases too or in filmy language you call them "twists" .... It started when I shifted from Bombay(now Mumbai) to Mizoram... In mumbai no one knew me ...i was one of the 40 students in the class... very scared , not confident , average in studies ... no one would ever notice me in the class ....but when i came to mizoram, somehow i got some confidence don't know from where ... i used to excel almost in everything from studies to sports ... suddenly so much of attention spoiled me :) .... I think that was the part of my life i enjoyed the most .... i have got all i wanted ... i was no.1 in everything .... i used to play pranks on everyone including teachers and never yelled at ... i remember the time when we have put a lizard pranky in the attendance register and my class teacher got scared that he was about to fall down... everyone laughed out loud... for that second i thought i would taken to principal office but instead he said please don't scare me like this i'm weak at heart... like this so many pranks which even led me once to principal's room but i came out of it untouched.....

Then came college life ... the worst part of my life .. i was again to level zero ...first of all the place allahabad so different from any part of india i have been to ... people wise, climate wise , lifestyle wise... first few months i wanted to run away from there ....the people there only wanted to win some or the other battle everyday ... may it the battle of studies, projects, love, girl... everything there was a competition ..you win it you survive or else you will die... the marks were distributed not only on the basis of the project or marks you have scored it also dependent on the dress you wear , the impression on the professor ... the more you fall on their feet the more you get out of it ... well the same still works in professional life as well ...that was one of the twists in my life ...that life has only given me gloominess ....including the time of campus placements ... that was the time i learnt that even though you work hard .. that's not the only thing which matters there are many other factors one of which is LUCK and other being CONTACTS.....

Then came professional life .......life was more hectic and tiring .. with that also came responsibilities... though the excitement of seeing cash in my own account every month was there ...but obviously it came with a teaching that you have work really hard for it and it's not at all easy to earn money which we used to spend like water earlier....but this was time which was more productive that any other part of life .. you learn a lot .. you come face to face with real scenarios ...be it personal and professional .. and you learn to grow up mentally and become more skilled ... here all your 4 years engineering comes to testing ... you will be tested every moment and there are no semester end vacation either .... for every day leave you take you will be pleading to your manager as though your pleading for your life from yamraj....even when you are ill ...your manager will call you and start "I'm sorry to disturb you ...but this is urgent"... is it more urgent than my life F7^%&^ ...but u end up saying "that's okay i'll be there in 10 mins"... you just can't say NO to manager ... cos they are GOD or more appropriately DEVILS who can take the happiness out of your life ... and they don't know the meaning of "NO" .. they feel that their estimation is the best though they may not even the technologies used in the project .. they may not even be able to spell the technologies ..but they would still go ahead and estimate it ...and who suffers DEVELOPERS (least paid professionals) ... i feel all managers name should be changed to satan... they are only present to take out the good out of life .... suck the blood of developers till they lie dead.......